Can I kick my spouse out of the marital home, or can they kick me out?

No! Unless there is a court order that one of you must vacate the marital home or there is a personal protection order keeping one of you out, both spouses have equal rights to remain in the marital home.

Can my spouse and I have the same attorney?

No. Because divorcing spouses’ interests are inherently opposed—what one spouse receives, the other does not—one lawyer cannot ethically represent both of you. One spouse may hire an attorney while the other represents themselves, but that attorney owes loyalty only to their client.

Do I have to go to court to get a divorce?

Not necessarily. If you and your spouse reach a full settlement, your divorce may be finalized with only a brief, uncontested hearing—or sometimes even without appearing in court. If disputes arise, you may need hearings or a trial. Your attorney will guide you through what to expect.

How long does it take to get divorced in Michigan?

If you and your spouse don’t have minor children, the minimum waiting period is 60 days from the date of filing. If you do have minor children, the waiting period is six months, although a judge can shorten it for good cause—but never to less than 60 days. Remember, these are minimums; divorces often take longer depending on issues like property division, custody disputes, or court scheduling.

If I move out of the house during the divorce, do I lose my right to it?

No. Your property rights in a divorce don’t depend on whether you stay in or move out of the marital home. In Michigan, marital property generally includes anything either spouse acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on it or who lives in it. Moving out does not mean giving up your share of the home’s value.

That said, if you have children, moving out without a clear parenting plan in place can create challenges. Judges often look at the living arrangements during the divorce when deciding custody and parenting time. If one parent leaves the home and the children remain with the other, it can unintentionally influence how the court views stability and caregiving.

Before making a decision to leave the home when children are involved, it’s important to talk to an attorney. We can help you evaluate both the property and parenting implications and make a plan that protects your interests and your children’s well-being.

Is Michigan really a no-fault divorce state?

Yes—but “no-fault” doesn’t mean fault never matters. To get divorced, you only need to show that the marriage has broken down and cannot be repaired. However, one spouse’s misconduct–such as financial waste, abuse, or infidelity–can still affect issues like property division, spousal support, and sometimes child custody.

Is there an advantage to filing first?

Sometimes. Filing first may give you some procedural benefits, such as choosing the county when spouses live in different counties, setting the initial timeline, and obtaining immediate orders. It’s best to discuss your circumstances with an attorney before making that decision.

What if my divorce is uncontested?

People often describe their divorce as “uncontested” because they and their spouse generally agree that they want to end the marriage. But a truly uncontested divorce means that both spouses agree on every single issue—property division, custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, and all the details in between.

In reality, even couples who agree on the big picture often find there are details to work through once everything is reduced to the written document required by the court. That doesn’t mean your divorce has to become hostile—it just means there may be more to resolve than you expect. Even when details arise that need to be fleshed out, many divorces are still resolved quickly through negotiation, which keeps the process efficient and low-conflict.

Having an attorney ensures your agreements are thorough, enforceable, and in your best interest—so that what feels “uncontested” today doesn’t lead to surprises or disputes later.

What should I do if I get served with Michigan divorce papers?

First, don’t panic. Being served with divorce papers doesn’t mean everything is already decided—it simply means the legal process has begun. You still have the opportunity to respond, protect your interests, and help shape the outcome.

Here are the most critical steps to take right away:

  • Read the papers carefully. They explain (although sometimes in generic or canned terms) what your spouse is asking for (custody, support, property division, etc.) and how long you have to respond. In Michigan, you generally have 21 days to file an answer if served in person and 28 days if served by mail. 
  • Mark your deadline. Missing the deadline can result in a default judgment—meaning the court may grant your spouse what they asked for without hearing your side.
  • Gather documents. Start collecting financial records (pay stubs, tax returns, account statements, property deeds, etc.) and anything related to your children if custody or parenting time will be at issue.
  • Do not sign anything without advice. Sometimes spouses pressure each other to agree to things quickly. Signing without understanding the consequences can lock you into terms that aren’t in your best interest.
  • Contact an experienced family law attorney immediately. The sooner you get guidance, the more options you have. An attorney can explain what the papers mean, help you prepare your response, and develop a strategy tailored to your situation.

Remember: Getting served is the start of the process, not the end. You do not have to go through it alone.